So maybe he's tried to address your concerns but the problem hasn't gone away. it saddens me to know that not only women go through such things im a man been married to a women i gave the world to she now is fighting for my late mums house after all her wrongs she done into me only god knows how she was able to get my mums property on her name it saddens me that everytime it feels like she winning even in her wrongs my mum left me with a sister that also does not have a home but this women is fighting for my mums house to be sold as shes only lacking money my concern where do i our kids go if we no longer there as she herself does not have a house this is so sad i pray but feel lost i mostly sit and ask God why me what did i do to go through all this just for loving a women that has never loved me. Sorry, but I am not into rewarding bad behavior. "name": "Does it hurt to see your family keep meeting your ex? Since my uncles death the family have been peaceful and loving , i now find happiness in everything i do. Im having the same experience with my family currently and its really upsetting. Reply to Chris Chris. Her Ex was fine with it and he was baptized there. Ironically, her mother told me her daughter was a spoiled brat. Hes in his early 20s and is hopping around from girl to girl while having just welcomed his son, Paul last January from a previous relationship (Paul is not my actual child, by the way. My wife now and her family has treated me so wonderful, but I have always been in sort of a fog that my family never accepted my new wife, even when it was her who left. My heart breaks for her everyday and I worry about her constantely. The time with your kids has been split. Since 2019 he has started writing in English on this website. My heart aches for you. When its over, its over for them. I divorced in 1990. The only thing Ive ever said was to my sister explaining that I dont feel comfortable coming to family functions if my ex is there. Truth is always best when served direct. That what that kinda sounds like. Theresa deserves Karma to put her in a similar situation and see how tshe survives it. My Dad was married to a woman for over ten years. If you don't, and you see his or her ex enjoying it with him or her, beware.". Then i am the bad guy. My ex-wife abandoned my first born 4 times. Good luck <3. Your happiness is more important than your family and your children? "It was just this one time, it won't happen again". We both always believed we were meant to be together and he has told me this many times, but the way he treats me blows my mind. I wish they would just cut ties with my ex already. I commend these amazing people, they truly are amazing parents. Why cant he live his own life?!? I am sure it is very painful for the original poster to be watching her family remain too close with her ex. And perhaps he doesnt carry bitterness because he never truly loved your daughter. There is absolutely no acknowledgement of anyone elses behaviour being a problem just mine and this is the problem at the heart of all dysfunctional families you are not allowed to speak of the dysfunction but should it really be so surprising? Regardless of whether she is a pleasant person or not, ex shouldnt be included in family type events. com. WRONG!!! Not cool. My two kids are 27 & 29 now. To make matters worse, he got along well with my parents and sister. Some of your options are: take a break from your family until you feel differently, tell your family to choose you or him (I do not recommend this), grin and bear it by going to holidays anyway even though you dont like who you are around him. Guess what when each and everyone of us decied to have children it stopped being about us and became about them. You dont want your kids thinking, whats so wrong with dad that he warrants this rejection. My husband is my sisters husband brother. However when I come home for holidays no exs are allowed because my family respects my wishes and I bring my husband and dog with me. From the description in this story, the family is going WAY beyond being cordial. It is my opinion that when your child gets married two people become one and family emerge as one. When you think youre the only one, it can be a lonely place. Im remarried and that does not sit well with my current husband either. x. I feel the same way. All fell on deaf ears, instead my daughter and I were outcasts. Your comments are toxic. But in reality what can you do? But if there are still things from her laying around, thats often because he hasnt fully processed the whole breakup situation yet. He told off my mom. My boyfriend and I really think this is a step too far. I thought the same of my family. No one ever stood up for me. My exs parents died and he inherited quite a bit. In sign #6 Ill explain how you can prevent him from saying these kinds of things in the future. If you cant answer yes to most of those then your true answer is no! never a school conference etc. My two kids and I celebrate holidays with our friends. So perhaps Im going to do something very manly and stupid: answering a question that hasnt been asked to me at all. They (my ex, his girlfriend, my sisters, my brothers-in-law, my mom, and my nieces and nephews) have Superbowl parties together, have family days at the park, go shooting, go out to dinner or breakfast, etc. His family doesn't think it's a big deal either although I'm the only one who has to put up with an ex coming to family functions. Especially if that other party has been there through thick or thing. She of course will never speak up. My Ex was not even a good father, never around and never knew his kids. Should I tell Tom or his family? Hes never done that before. Actually, when we got back together I found out they were going to my exes wedding, lol! That doesnt mean that they may never see him again, but you should be the one that makes that decision, and they need to wait for you to make that call. A controlling, abusive one who wants to remain connected to try and continue to control and punish you by any means possible which is why I took the difficult decision to break contact. Family is suppose to stick together and should have tried to make her feel loved and supported, not like she was responsible for the consequences of an abuser. After receiving an open invite to all Thanksgivings and Christmas they uninvited me and my new family to Christmas Eve Dinner because my ex will be there. Why? I understand people form relationships through marriage but divorce also causes a family dynamic to change. I went to therapy to try to sort thru it, but the therapist said my feelings of betrayal by my brother are normal and healthy, considering all of the things my ex did to me (and of which my brother is aware). thats there brother inlaw. He lied and was on some kind of control agenda from the start. When my partner announced his ex and three youngest children were moving in with him that evening, conventional thinking said that I should lose my cool. Just try to find your peace with it. Whatever. I never even had one phone call or message from any of my family, even after asking if any of them could have the boys for any time! She married too to another man, bu she still contact him 2-3 times a month after i married with him.. My Dads family still does things with her too. She moved in with him; they got a dog together, and she helped him raise his son for the 6+ years that they lived together (the boy's mother is still in . This closeness wasnt something I was prepared for. Why would my siblings request and maintain friends with my ex family when my siblings know how much this bothers me. I never regretted that choice. Apparently she saw the X ( the divorce was 20+ years ago) through mutual friends last month and he asked her if she thought I would want to hang out with him and his large group of friends, and. For one they are his kids too. The same goes for friends. Its not easy. I also learned that someday, you may find its too tiring to remain angry all at once and you start to forgive. But they said they forgave her because she was struggling with it even though she was the one that talked of divorce first. His behaviour basically reminds me of Stalking. You have to remember that they were his family too for 13 years. I just blocked my sister on Instagram because she post pictures of my ex and her family hanging out! And no she cant make her family choose, however, shes is their mother and full time care giver, is she is well supported and feels safe emotionally and mentally THEN the kids will be in a better position. I have since found out that my ex forged legal documents when we first moved in together so if we split before marriage I wouldnt have had anything. I know exactly how you feel. Have you spoken with them about how you feel? I know Im rambling and I could go on about different occasions but the reason Im writing is because Im hurt that my family could do that to me. Think of the benefits the kids get from this type of situation. From everything Ive read of your account, it feels to me as if you are slowly being erased. I still love my husband so very much. Im not having it. Well, then, it's time to change boyfriends. Now i work with children and I know its a fact. Youre right to feel what youre feeling. This is all a story of my reality. If the breakup was a healthy one, it might be easier to stay friends with an ex's family. Their ex may even become a new friend! All the years of my marriage I kept all the hurt inside, never told my family what was actually going on in my marriage, devoting my entire life to my kids happiness. Let him know how you feel, the moment he does it. I know for me it was so hard this whole process and understanding their side and why they are doing this .. I am sure you love them as I did mine and because you would never make them feel bad or not be there for them you presume they will do the same but not everybody has the same heart or courage as you or your best interests in mind. It amazes me how many people here take this womans side. IDK what the deal is but its absurd. Her reply was pretty much he was wrong for being upset, wrong for being upset with her, that she didnt tell him because she was going to suprise him on his birthday. We don t talk to each other any moreand they wont let me see my nieces..I am beyond speechless and hurt,,,, If I can just see my nieces my brother and sister in law are not existing for me anymore what a betrayal You presumably made the decision? Your ex sounds psycho, honestly. The comments others have posted on this site, and on NPD Survivors, have helped me better understand my exs behavior and the unhealthy dynamics that exist in my family of origin. Her family should be spending time with her not with her ex. I think that once you are in a family through marriage, its impossible to just walk away.. As if friendships and emotions were adjustable by the use of a piece of paper and a light switch. It takes work sometimes painful work but itsi possible. It really is unbelievable and they think I am the crazy, nasty one?! I would recommend some counseling to talk through your feelings about your ex, so you can forgive and move on. Also, who knows if they get back together? Youre not unreasonable. Your trying to control a group of adults and punishing your children for your choice to divorce their dad. I dont feel you are in the wrong. Your family needs to respect your choice in divorcing him and cut ties as well. Im constantly forced to be in this situation with everyone except my family. On the other hand, each situation is different. He did live with his father because he told my son he shouldnt live with me. I believe that it is enough to be cordial to an ex at important occasions. Because it ISNT normal for a family to do this! It is the worse feeling. . Like so many of other posts I feel great empathy for the author; and have lived through perhaps similar situations. We are talking about parents and siblings who treat the ex better than their own flesh and blood even when the ex has been dangerous and abusive and downright manipulative. You will actually need to tell your family how you feel. The ex family does not request friends with my siblings but my siblings request to be friends with my ex family. And no wonder youd marry someone like that when your family totally disregards your feelings. Thank you fort he article, I was so embarasses because I thought I was the only one and that what am going through is not normal. My attempts to be mistral and teach out are ignored. This is the most unforgivable part, no loyalty to me is one thing, to my daughter is a whole new level. These posts confirm my feelings. Hes a great dad and a great person. So to say if you are in the rigth or in the wrong is next to impossible to say becuse well its only your words and its mostly about your emotional well bining. Make sure you're not using their family to get back at them or to stay close to them. what goes on in his home stays there and what goes on in yours also stays there.. not easy to be firm, but worth it keep smiling, stay strong realize some people are just good manipulators he did manipulate you right? Your feelings are legitimate and your dedication to putting on a brave face for your children is commendable. You ended it move on I stand by there is alwasy 3 sides to a story hishers.and the truth and the truth is seldom told. You will also actually find that we do let go we let go of the toxic people themselves and this only usually happens after years of trying to be reasonable and make things right tone er even be met half way. Nina and Toms sister are very close so I get her being over at their house and attending family events, but it makes me bitter how much they like her. I cannot change them and will concentrate on the wonderful people who have supported me. 16 years later, I regret that I supported him for so long. He hasn't cleaned up her stuff yet 2. However, there isnt peace about it, I miss my family and have no dealings with them whilst my ex husband is still around with another new girlfriend. Its beyond hurtful. I mean Im sorry but if your the only one who find him unbearable then maybe you should do some self reflection. It must be very frustrating and painful for this lady . His ex-wife is best friends with some family members, who, out of loyalty, cannot fully embrace me. Either way i think its disrespectful and hurtful.Would they still invite her if he had a girlfriend there? You begin to heal and flourish, you grow as a person, amazing new opportunities open up for you because you are no longer living with the insidious poison of someone who is a bully and has to abuse others just to make themselves feel good about themselves. The part that is still so hurtful and that I have difficulty accepting, is the fact that my family members; siblings and their spouses, nieces, nephews, all continue to have some level of interaction with him. My father had obviously been holding onto bitterness since my Mother left and that combined with his selfish nature has cost him dearly but I honestly think it doesnt bother him. Every time I pick them up, I hear the stories of what they did. You can work on your feelings and soon they will change. I left his family alone out of respect for him but hes basically taken mine from me. That is true for you. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now, but his sister is still good friends with his ex. And is she bothering his family or overstepping? You can continue to be alone and miss out or you can get busy being apart of your familys lives outside of holidays, etc. There is no one to mediate and none of his family talk about their problems the way I was brought up to do. What I wanted to do was scream at both of them to stop acting like children. I was so confused and looking for help, I dont know what to do until I met my friend Cassie, and I told her my problem. Woman to woman, mother to mother this woman is already confused and betrayed by her own toxic family Please, think of someone other than yourself before you comment on a public post where another woman is being so vulnerable. I am not saying much in response to this out of respect for my parents. We know this as fact, because she made videos of her cheating. He says that she is a "very, very close friend and he loves her like a sister." Its crazy. I have told him that its painful for me to see her accepted as a member of the family and that he still has a close relationship with her. Still so many ignorant about abuse! This man is a genius. Wow! Am I wrong for wanting. (still friends). However, your children do not agree. He never missed a chance to remind me how Ive got no one. Your email address will not be published. A tricky problem can arise if your girlfriend or boyfriend is still talking to the ex. They called my ex husband and spread lies about my partner. I have realised that they are very much into appearances and that youre only an acceptable member of the family if you work 40 plus hours a week and are constantly trying to better yourself materially. Tellng them about his child support payments and how unfair it was that he paid child support because the teen kids chose to live with him. Ive called her on this and told her it is inappropriate. You are the one handling this wrong. This is a respect issue. What adult children need to understand through their breakup is to beat the consequences of their decisions to marry and human weaknesses( whatever caused the breakup) Everybody tells me I need to leave him. Answer: This one is a little bit complicated because your boyfriend is basically doing the right thing by his family but it's slowly driving you crazy. We had agreed that I would have the kids. Holidays are weird. Its purposeful. She wanted the divorce. Why? I thought about calling them and telling them off but I figured it was a waste of time and just to completely write them off. I agree that the kids come emotional and mental safety are paramount. Selfishly, im the one handling 100% of the financial responsibility for their grandkids (and I wouldnt want it any other way) but they dont seem to mind him contributing zero and having a six figure arrearage that will never be paid. It's not something he'll necessarily do consciously and he'll always have an excuse for it: "She was in a bad place, she needed me". I got back in touch with my Dad last year and after months of phone calls he wouldnt even meet up with me 5 minutes from his house with me making a 90 mile journey! He quite happily told my Father that I couldnt do anything because I didnt have any money! January 16, 2020 at 4:30 a.m. Dear Amy: My boyfriend and I have been together for three months. You have a biological seat at the table I personally cannot understand why any parent or sibling would want to deliberately spend time with an ex unless kids were involved. Who Is Naomi Osakas Boyfriend? I now have nothing to do with the rest of my family because of the betrayal. So, I get you! You stay strong and take the high road. Mind you I was 13 and he was 22, so who is really to blame? When it was time to divorce, which was oh so necessary, one of my aunts and one of my sisters listened to him bad mouth me. All she wanted to know is if I wrote a mean reply back. Finally if you are a christian, please forgive yourself, your family and your ex and save yourself the headache and burden of the pain. I have stopped working over 5 months ago since I started getting money from this money spell LORD SAN did for me. Most people are not saying you shouldnt let the children see the other side of the family at all. My father remains in contact with him and goes to their house. But your family is wrong wrong wrong!!! Those kids have a good situation, especially because you have been strong so far. The last 4-5 years together we BOTH knew our marriage was over we didnt sleep in the same room, we barely spoke, we didnt go out together, etc. As a now 40 year old adult, whos parents divorced 30 years ago. I guess sometimes things work out. He's Still In Active Communication With Her If the person you are in a relationship with has children from a past marriage; trust me, the kids will always be a reason for her to call him or vice versa. I am responding to Theresa Channer, But I think that for the sake of emotional growth, you should not create more space between yourself and your family and begin to heal. Your own family members should respect your privacy and your wishes and have no problem distancing themselves from your exes. My dad took off then and got remarried, moved 2 states away and kind of dropped out of my life to a degree. His sister and his ex are spending more and more time together. Ever since they dated when she was a teen, I had a close relationship with him. If you make the friendship work, you have even more people to go bowling with! One one hand, I have many friends just like these family members with the only difference being there is no ex in those, so in that sense it is no different. Unfortunately the marriage just did not work. Divorce means its over! My sister most of all is the worse. You can read all about it here if you dont believe me. I know its difficult but you are the much better person. She stopped talking to me completely when she moved him in with her because she knew Id feel betrayed and be upset! I think you should address why you feel uncomfortable around him to the extent that you are unable to spend a few hours with him on holidays etc. I was tired of being hateful. Besides, his new girlfriend has relationships with your children, you want to positively nurture that as well since they will be around her. Almost like they are pushing you out. Here are the 8 signs that he's still in love with his ex 1. And very hypocritical as my mother is so pious regarding everything else. Her family should have been their for her & her kids. By this point he has them fooled but I pray one day it turns around. View related questions: Why should the sister-in-law/brother, father, mother, etc. While youre not exactly unreasonable to have feelings like this, it is unreasonable that because youve divorced someone that youre expecting your family to not communicate with them anymore. Especially if your goal is to continue to have a relationship with them whether or not you two are able to rekindle your romance. My ex is not blood and I feel whether or not they agree w my decision they should have been supportive. When your kids get older, they will see it all. Well, I can tell you from personal experience that it absolutely is. My ex only appears stable because he has money but he was a deadbeat, absent father and I am not in my 50s, alone and isolated. I think your familys behaviour is incredibly disrespectful and dismissive of you. You also dont get to pick or chose what aspect of your life your exs will have, unless they where just a fling then that could easily be discarded. What sort of man deliberately engineers this kind of situation? Is this something I want to live with for the rest of my life? Family loyalty is twisted and tricky all channelled towards leading you towards depression but be wise.consider your family as your number one enemy and adjust your trust issues. but will drive 2 hours to spend holidays or special events with MY family. he has been invited to two upcoming weddings even though I asked them not to, so we can enjoy our family without seeing him, hoping to get my family back. My ex lives in her rent house. Lmao but I know that God isnt no one and Ive got him if no one else and that my ex is working for the devil to destroy Christians and have them turn from God. When you are married, you dont want your family to be aloof, stand-offish. He does it in front of the kids and friends. Why would he even want to punish you like this? My ex-husband left to Mexico, so he never paid child support; left me with bills galore, but ironically still continued visiting my family members, whom knowingly knew, how he treated his family.. My brother called me to let me know this was going to happen. Every person is impacted by divorce. You should feel happy that his family are the type to grow bonds with the familial partners. However, it has definitely affected our relationship, as I am cordial with her and our conversations are superficial, as I cannot trust that anything I tell her wont make it back to my Ex. Thank god I have the love of a good man now. This is my opinion. They didnt like seeing their daughter/sister treated that way. Exs who cant exit your life and stop unhealthy ways to make sure their Believed are SICK Period, and you have the right to protect your kids from them if they are against YOU period. i met my boyfriend 5 years ago with 6 months in the relationship i found a face book account with me block .his friend said i met u b4 when i never met him . It will help them to grow up to be more loving adults in the world. Thanks FAMILY. Im afraid I dont really have much advice for you but I do think its a lot for you to go through and if youve been handling it up to now the way you have Good for you. I dont talk to or see my family anymore. I expressed displeasure. My ex always said I had issues with authority is all I wasnt abused by her. Often I get this info from my daughter that they had chatted. Hell no!! I am sorry you lost your family but if she can do that to her own daughter she does not deserve to be a mother. Follow her on Twitter. My parents were much more understanding. I feel a conversation of honesty from your point of view is necessary. Or that a guy still has one foot in the old relationship and one foot in the new relationship?. Thats something you need to understand, and I think youll realize it when you look at the situation yourself. We have no idea if her ex is a manipulator and IF that is the case then he needs her familys support even more. He doesnt like it either, but Its very likely that if he doesnt muster up enough courage to say something, that this will affect our relationship moving forward. I got a divorce. My family, isnt making it clear either. She had none of these issues. I think its very cruel ! Saddens me my family has never had my back or cared about me. But how long hes being depressed is much more important. I can also have a better report with her than my dad at times. Sorry I know it hurts but that will change one day too. 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